कल का सूरज…

सब्र करेंगे  रातभर, ये अंधेरा ढलनेका,
कल का सूरज क्या लाएगा, किसे है पता?
* * *
क्या होगी धूप कल, या छाँव में दिन गुजरेगा,
कल का दिन क्या दिखायेगा, किसे है पता?
* * *
रास्ता होगा ख़त्म, या चलती जाएँगी राहें,
राही बननेका दर्द है या ख़ुशी, किसे है पता?
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सब्र करेंगे दिनभर, फिर सूरज ढलनेका,
ये रातें क्या ख्वाब लाएगी, किसे है पता?
* * *
सुहाने होंगे सपने, या फिरसे दूरियां दिखेगी,
किस कश्मकश से गुजरेंगे, किसे है पता?
* * *
चाहतें होगी पूरी, या तक़दीर फिर से नचाएगी,
ज़िंदगी क्या क्या दिखाएगी, किसे है पता?
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— @pbkulkarni

बाग़-ए-ग़ुलाब…

धीरे से जाना उस बाग़ में,
जहा गुलाब खिलता हो,
खुशबू के संग संग कांटोंको,
जहा आझमाने मिलता हो
* * *
कभी ग़म के साये मिलेंगे,
कभी खुशियोंकी बारात बारात मिलेगी,
शायद खाली हाथ घूमना पड़े,
पर तकदीर से मुलाक़ात भी होगी
* * *
कुछ अलग फूल भी मिलेंगे,
उनसे भी गुफ़्तगूं कर लेना,
शायद गुलाब सी ख़ुशबू ना मिले,
पर उनको भी अपना लेना
* * *
कई रास्ते होंगे बाग़में जाने के,
पर अकेलेपन का रास्ता चुन लेना,
अगर ख़ुशबू साथ आये तो ठीक,
वरना खुद ही खुद के साथ चल देना
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 — @pbkulkarni

Move On…

Woman with luggage, image copyright Raul Lieberw

Pack them bags,

Just pack them and leave,

To a distant land,

Among unknown faces,

Untraced roads and,

Unmapped contours,

Trace the lines of your freedom,

Leave behind the clutter,

Open the mind to beauty,

Stand in the middle of a road,

Stare at the pattern,

Turn it in kaleidoscope,

Read, dream,

But don’t think,

Soak in the anonymity,

Brush aside inhibitions,

Go for a stroll,

Alone,

On the seashore,

Listen to the waves,

Distant chirping of birds,

Just be there,

As if you are alone in the world,

No friends,

No enemies,

Cut the ropes holding you back,

Lurch forward,

Dive into the waters,

It’s okay if you can’t swim,

Reach the bed of the sea,

Bury your past there,

When you surface back,

Make sure you have,

A clean slate.

— @pbkulkarni

आयुष्याचं गणित…

आयुष्याचं गणित चुकलय,
कागदावरती फक्त खाडाखोड,
स्वप्न अनेक रंगांची पण,
हाती येते फक्त तडजोड 
 
आटोकाट प्रयत्न होतो मग,
डावी नि उजवी बाजू साधण्याचा,
पावलं तर बरोबर टाकली होती,
आता भाग चुका शोधण्याचा
 
सूत्रं चुकली असतील कुठेतरी,
मनात शंकेची पाल चुकचुकली,
संधी नशिबाने दिल्या असतील,
पण पकडायची संधी असेल हुकली 
 
गणिताची प्रत्येक पायरी जेव्हा,
पुन्हा एकदा पाहिली तपासून,
कळले हि गल्लत सूत्राची नव्हे,
आकडेमोड चुकली होती हातून 
 
हाती वेळ आहे तोवरच,
संधी गणित परत तपासायची,
परीक्षा संपली, वेळही संपली,
नंतर हळहळ व्यर्थचि 
 
 
— @pbkulkarni

मनाची पाटी… #Marathi #Poem

काही गोष्टी मनासारख्या,

काही गोष्टी मनाविरुद्ध,
अशी मालिका चालायचीच,
आपण मात्र मनाची पाटी कोरी करायची.
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विषण्णतेच्या गर्तेतून झेप घ्यायची,
मनातला काहूर शमवायचा,
नव्या काहुराला जागा करायची,
मनाची पाटी परत कोरी करायची
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काही व्यक्ती येतात अन,
आपलं आयुष्याच बदलून जातात,
ते गेले म्हणून कच नाही खायची,
मनाची पाटी परत कोरी करायची
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आयुष्यात आनंदाचे क्षण येतात,
असाध्य ते साध्य होतं एकदम,
म्हणून डोक्यात हवा नाही जाऊ द्यायची,
मनाची पाटी परत कोरी करायची
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आयुष्याच्या गोळाबेरजेत अनेकदा,
मनाची पाटी ओतप्रोत भरते,
कोणी येउन पुसेल याची वाट नाही पहायची,
आपल्या मनाची पाटी आपणंच कोरी करायची
— @pbkulkarni

Be Gentle… #OctPoWriMo Day 4

Written for: Day 4 prompt at “OctPoWriMo

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Be Gentle

Image Courtesy: Google

Not everything is fair,

In this game of life,

But don’t point at it,

With a grudged knife

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Some run ahead,

Some will be behind,

Don’t let the envy,

Clutter your mind
* * *

Look at the shanties,

Dream of high rise, but

Don’t let pomp get you,

In pride’s disguise

* * *

Cherish the good,

Distance the bad,

Some things will hurt,

But don’t be too sad

* * *

Karma is the cause,

Time is the answer,

On this grand stage,

We are just a dancer.

— @pbkulkarni

“Destiny” – [Random Feelings Series]

Sitting in the window,

he was lost in thoughts,

contemplating why and how,

wrong have gone the plots

* * *

A moment ago it felt,

like he figured out all,

a moment of life dealt,

and he saw it all fall

* * *

Study, good job and then,

get married to a girl,

ship was on the way when,

he saw the sails unfurl

* * *

The ship changed its route,

zigzagging South and West,

his throat went Brut,

and left a bitter taste

* * *

He fought against with furor,

trying to alter the path,

with his eyes on the shore,

recalculating the math

* * *

He then thought why not,

go along the flow and check,

what his destiny has got,

and how do its plans bake

* * *

He let the wind take charge,

ship sailed to the shore,

albeit different, but large,

see what fruits the destiny bore.

– – – PBK

Lessons from Past…

Indian mythology is full of miracles, supernatural and marvelous phenomenon, which cannot be justified with the common knowledge of Science. But every tale (not almost but every) has something or the other to teach us. The teachings mostly being about moral and ethics, what is righteous and what is wrong. In short how to behave as a human being. Indian mythology is overwhelmingly full of such tales and incidents.

One of such incident is of Sant Jñāneshwar.

Sant in Marathi means saint. He was a 13thCentury (1275-1296) saint, poet, philosopher and much more. His

Sant Dnyaneshwar

contribution to Marathi literature and overall history of India is something inexplicable. He wrote a commentary and critic on Bhagvad Geeta, known as Bhavartha Deepika, at the tender age of 15. Today, that Bhavartha Deepika also known as Dnyaneshwari is considered a milestone in Literature World. He had one elder brother (Nivrutti – who was also his Guru/teacher) and 2 younger siblings (Sopan and Mukta).

Now he (Dnyaneshwar) being very pious, soft spoken, ever calm and composed, often did some or the other miracles like, asking a male buffalo to read out the Vedas loudly and cooking bread on his sister’s back etc. But the most talked about miracle is of he and his siblings sitting on a wall and making it fly.

The story may be true, may not be true. I, however, believe that the story is true. But keeping aside the practical part of it, we have a huge lesson to be learnt from this incidence. It often happens that we get into the fight of deciding whether it is correct or not and always keep aside what we need to learn from it.

Coming back to the story, there was another learned person and a saint himself named Changdeva Maharaj, who was a mystical yogi. He had control over the “Classical Elements” and used to perform supernatural acts with his this control.

It so happened, that Changdeva Maharaj came to know about Dnyaneshwar and his sibling’s prowess over Vedas and wanted to test them. So he sent a blank note/paper to Dnyaneshwar Maharaj. On receiving this blank paper, Dnyaneshwar Maharaj and his siblings started laughing at this gesture and wrote back a 65 verse quintessence on Vedas back to Changdeva Maharaj. Changdeva Maharaj, though being highly learned and so much powerful, couldn’t understand anything out of those 65 verses and decided to meet these children in person and show the greatness and power of his. So he rode a huge tiger and carried a venomous Cobra as a whip. Dnyaneshwar saw a big procession coming towards their village and spotted Changdeva Maharaj riding a tiger. These siblings then sat on a wall and made it fly towards Changdeva Maharaj.

Sant Dnyaneshwar humbles Changdev Maharaj

Changdeva Maharaj was stunned to see an inanimate wall being used as a vehicle. His false pride and ego was crashed in an instance and he suddenly alighted from the tiger, sat on his knees to salute Sant Dnyaneshwar. He then became one of the disciples of Sant Dnyaneshwar.

Lesson:

Just because you are older than others, doesn’t mean you are of higher stature. (Dnyaneshwar was just 12-13 years of age and Changdev Maharaj was more than 50 years when this incident took place.) As we know, capabilities bring more responsibilities. The more learned you are the less should be your ego and false pride. Rather, a learned person should never have an ego. Changdeva had so much power, but he had ego, and that was the worst part of it.

Ego kills the knowledge you have. Too much boasting on knowing something is very harmful. You are not the only one who knows things; there will always be someone else who knows more than you. If we have to take recent example, we can think of Sachin Tendulkar. Even after spending 23 years in the game of cricket, he is not complacent about his batting and playing prowess.

In short, a learned man should always be humble 🙂

Tragedies, Human and God…

Remember last time you said “Why this pain?”

Yea, sounds like you thought about this just some time before, right?

We have this knack of questioning God’s existence. Accepted that you can’t prove his existence, but then you can’t deny it too. Also, man has this habit of writing off all the credit of his success to his name and all the failures to God’s.

Some question, why there is pain if God is there. And I smile at their childish question. Well is it like if God is there your life is supposed to be all fairy tales? Let me ask you a corollary to it. If God is not there, then why isn’t your life complete hell then? Isn’t your life a balance of beauty and hell? Don’t you get happy moments along with those sad ones?

I have one rational theory behind the tragedies or pain that befalls on us.

Tragedies bring people together, who otherwise wouldn’t have come together.

Consider various live examples in front of us. There have been numerous tragedies in Mumbai (or Bombay, whatever you call it). And you see people flocking in and pooling their efforts to save the victims of the tragedy.

Many a times I have seen it on Twitter, when it rains in Mumbai and roads are water logged, people tweet saying “I am travelling by so and so road. If anyone wants a ride home, hop in”.

Hadn’t it been for tragedy, would you have considered tweeting that? Would you ask someone, besides your friends, to hop in while on way home?

It’s another thing that soon after the meet, we forget about the person who helped you and whom you helped. That was an opportunity to be a human being to another human, and you lose it by not keeping in contact.

Coming back to the point, what I mean is, pain or tragedy comes in our life intermittently just for reminding us that your life cannot be all hunky dory all the time. You lose someone close to you, to learn how to live a life independently. Yea, this is a harsh way to teach things to us, but then that’s the way it is handled.

Because we don’t listen to a lecture if it is free of cost. But when we pay for it, we try to grab every word spoken by the orator.

And as far as God’s reference in this post is concerned, I strongly believe in God. Not the way a priest might believe in, but in more rational way. His presence has simply been brought into existence because we wanted some point, whereto we could stare and find the calmness we want in those anxious moments.

And the pain you suffer is bound to be that way. You are bound to suffer because of your deeds. God neither bring the pain to your life nor does he take it away from your life.

Trade Off…

Trade Off…

We constantly live in the world of trade-offs. Whether the path number 1 is correct or the path number 2 is correct, is always the question. The life we live is better or the life others live is better is always the case.

And in such a trade-off we choose the path which the masses follow, in turn living their life. We never give it a thought and consider both the cases standing at the middle point of both.

One such trade-off is whether to live lavishly or to be subtle. There are myriad cases surrounding us which show both the facets of this trade-off, but we often choose the lavish lifestyle because we consider that’s the current trend and it’s cool to live lavishly.

There are two pre-cursors to living a lavish life style.

  1. Either you have inherited large sum of money and you don’t mind spending it, or
  2. You have hard earned (easy money can also be considered, but for keeping the discussion on sane level, I am not including the easy money in this case) money and want to live lavishly.

Now here I need to describe what I mean by lavish lifestyle. This lavishness is not in its entirety but considers only one aspect of providing extravagant things/items to the kids.

  1. Providing children (under aged) vehicles, high end gadgets, extravagant items.
  2. Providing kids money (as pocket money, which is a good thing) but not keeping the outgoing in check. Parents need to ask their children where and why they have spent the money.

I think providing your kids with the things they demand instantaneously is a crime. Yes, it is a crime. You should teach them the waiting game. They demand and you provide won’t work for long. Because in that case, their expectations from you keep on increasing and you keep on doing the exact things you shouldn’t be. If they get things at the moment it comes out of their mouth, they lose the value. Forget about losing the value, they don’t even understand the value of money.

They think, if you can afford to provide me with high end gadget, which kids of his age in general don’t have, buying gadgets is pretty simple task for you. But what they don’t understand is the hard work you put behind earning the money to buy them the gadgets.

It’s a trade off.

I think, living subtly gives you more options. It allows you to fulfill the wishes of your children and at the same time teach them the importance of money. This will teach them the value for money. Let the kid ask you for a wrist watch, tell him you will buy it for him. But don’t buy it at the exact moment. Let him/her wait for some months/days and then buy the watch for them. They will be happy to see the surprise package from you.

One thing to consider here is, if you buy them goods instantaneously they might feel happier about it. But trust me; in the long run the happiness which kids get when they finally get the item after a little wait is long lasting and worth than the happiness they might get when they receive goods instantaneously.

So live subtly at least for your children, for them to understand the importance of money and keep them buoying instead of either flying or getting submerged.